Let’s play a game of “What If Your Could Have Your Ideal Relationship?”
What if you could dream of the perfect relationship with your ideal partner?
What would that relationship look like? Would you be married, dating, living together, in a long distance relationship, or in a permanent, committed relationship and not living together?
What would you dream he or she would look like?
What character traits would he or she have? Honest, loyal, faithful, faith-filled, committed or what?
What personality type would they be? Extrovert or introvert? Outgoing or quiet? Forceful or quiet?
What kind of hobbies or interests would they have? Would they need to be the same as yours?
How would you like to meet them? Online or in person?
What would be “deal breakers?” divorced, smoker, drinker, untrustworthy, wishy-washy, children….?
Why am I having you play this game of “what if?”
Because I believe that the energy that you put out in the world is what can come back to you. If you give up and say “I’m done” to dating and that “there are no good guys (gals) out there,” it would be very hard to call in the perfect partner for you. If you believe that you need to: lose weight, give up your freedom, get ahead in your career, work on getting all your bills paid, etc. first, meeting the perfect person for you may be blocked by your energy.
What if you could have your ideal relationship?
What do you need to do today to move that forward, instead of giving up?
Picture him or her in your mind. Dream. Pray about meeting that person. Make yourself available to meet someone. You can’t hide under a rock and meet the person you want to spend your life with.
Now, take your dream of an ideal partner and just loosen it up some. Be open to meeting someone that may not meet all your requirements.
Don’t give up. Trust God with the process. Partner with Him and see what happens. The result could be truly magical.
When I let go and trusted God with my desire for a godly man to come into my life, it happened. But only after I stopped grasping for people who turned out to not be a good fit for me. I also let myself be open to a man who was not who I expected to find.
You can dream and partner. Play the “What if I could have my ideal relationship game?”
Try it and let me know what happens. I’d love to hear about it. Contact me here.
And if you need a little help getting ready to find love, let me know. I’ve been through this and can teach you the strategies for attracting your ideal relationship.
Much love,
Jane
Jane Springer is a certified Life, Wellness and Style Coach who assists women in taking care of themselves, in body, mind and spirit. She coaches women who want to lose weight, avoid diabetes, and feel great. She also helps them thrive after divorce. She also helps them to clear their closets of old clothes and outdated attitudes, so they can shine and feel confident.