There are 3 things you must know this Christmas. This has been a very challenging year for everyone. Christmas is approaching and maybe you aren’t really feeling it this year. Or you are going overboard with your decorations and online ordering to try and make things better than they have been all year. Either way, …
Let’s play a game of “What If Your Could Have Your Ideal Relationship?” What if you could dream of the perfect relationship with your ideal partner? What would that relationship look like? Would you be married, dating, living together, in a long distance relationship, or in a permanent, committed relationship and not living together? What …
I was getting close to age 50 and things were looking pretty bleak in the dating and “finding the love of my life” department. I was ready to give up. I had been divorced many years and had just come off a disastrous on-line dating scenario. Dating a guy long-distance for 2 years and then …
It’s June. Summer is here. June 1. It’s time for a fresh start. The past few months are behind us. We are starting to peek outside and see what’s happening. How are we going to spend the summer? Who and how can we see others safely – family and friends? It’s time for a fresh …
“You’re talking too loud!”, I said, with a tone somewhere between impatience and anger. My husband of 15 years replied in a similar tone, “Put your headset on; this is a cognitive problem, not a hearing problem!” We had been co-working in the house for more than a month, and our nerves were really starting …
What baggage are you carrying into a new relationship? We all have baggage. Experiences that happened to us in the past that affect future relationships. Unless we do some work on clearing out the old thoughts, memories, and feelings, your future relationships can flounder. Or not even get off the ground. Let’s say you were …
Where is the best place to find love? My single lady friends ask me this all the time. Online dating, Meet-up groups. Church. Through friends. Volunteering. While these are all great places, these are not the best places to find LOVE. Want to know where? The best place to find love is in yourself first. …
I have many girl friends who have shared with me their online dating pitfalls and disasters. So, I thought I would share my biggest online dating disaster and how to avoid one. In the early days of online dating, I decided I would stick my toe in and see who and what was out there …
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This is a story of how I found love again after giving up. It seemed impossible to find a decent, godly man and I was scared to try again. After marrying two alcoholics, my track record was not good. I did date some really great guys for long periods, but ultimately, I knew they were …
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Many of us who have been through a divorce or divorces have experienced pain, shame, and regret. Some of us may still be in it. But we would like to get unstuck from those states and look at our divorce differently. Being in pain and regret is no fun. There is a time when we …